Comments on: do you really want to know?

By: Melissa B

Melissa B — Thu, 31 Jul 2008 04:01:21 +0000

You definitely kept me reading, every word, all the way through. And I have to say, I feel the same way when I wear a thong. Anyways, I wanted to say that when people take an overdue amount of time to leave my house and I need to do something that is beginning to get overdue, I simply go on with my chore. If it is making dinner for my family, I will cook away and then serve it. Yes, I will serve dinner to my family with the unwelcome guest standing there talking away if she so chooses. I may not eat myself unless I was really starving, however there is no way I am waiting until 10 PM to finally get my quiet time with them in bed.
If the person overstaying their welcome was to say anything or pretend to be annoyed by my actions, I merely say ‘Excuse me while I feed my hungry children’ or ‘Sorry I have got to get these munchkins fed and in bed before they continue to ravage my house.’ Usually with me cooking and practically ignoring so-and-so they will usually excuse themselves, to which I reply ‘Sorry I would have walked you to the door earlier, but I am just up to my elbows in this dinner now’ or something to that affect so they won’t be encouraged to do the same again.
Good luck with yours.
~Melissa B

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Mon, 28 Jul 2008 21:25:28 +0000

Just thinking about your latest blog and wanted to say that the sooner you can really stop thinking about what other people think about you the better.I did that years ago and it’s very freeing.People will ALWAYS have something to say about other’s,unfortunatly that’s the way of the world.Do a friendship checklist and really check off any toxic one’s. For me this is really helpful because I don’t want to waste my time or have that around my kid’s.One friend recently came back into my life and I’m not so sure I really even like her even though it seems lot’s of other’s do.Now, as far as the guy’s who wore the fat chick shirt’s,they are the same one’s who go home after desperatly trying to pick up anything and everything and sit down to watch another video from their extensive porn collection and have them selve’s a HAND sandwich.Can you imagine if women walked aroud with t-shirt’s that read no bald guy’s or I love guy’s with six pack ab’s only.or better yet no viagra user’s please. As far as this fat chick is concerned she NEVER had to date that guy,MARRIED her prince charming,HAS the beautiful children and live’s HAPPILY!!!!!!!! YEAH,let’s hear it for the big girl’s.